not for naught

It's so much easier to let people be themselves.

I mean, I have a hard enough time trying to make changes in myself. Why would I want to change another person?

I think many people are so accustomed to others wanting changes in them, that they hear it from EVERYone, even when it's not really there.

I don't want you to change. I never did. I love you as you are. You never scared me-- I was fascinated by you! You are the breath that brought me back to life.

Relax. Be yourself. Truly.